“The best thing about the future,” Abraham Lincoln once said, “is that it comes one day at a time.”
We can all relate to those words, especially these days. A worldwide pandemic has a way of making us pause and focus on our perspective, values, beliefs. It’s been a remarkable and horrifying few weeks. The world has changed overnight, it seems. And all we can do is our part to get through this once-in-a-lifetime crisis, to help in any way we can, and to be smart and responsible.
Some, of course, the frontline emergency nurses and doctors, are at the center of this war on humanity. They are fighting the battles raging in hospitals and ERs. They are the soldiers fighting for each of us. For most of us, however, we are either hunkering down at home all the time or only going out to work at our job and perhaps shop for necessities every now and then, only to return home as efficiently and quickly as possible. Either way, a lot of people are spending a lot more time in their abodes.
For me, personally, this “social distancing,” as it’s called, isn’t that difficult to get through. I’m a natural introvert. Nevertheless, the degree of hunkering down at home is a challenge even for a lifelong loner like me. I spend most of my days working from home, editing and proofreading manuscripts for book publishers and individual authors. But at night, or when I just need a break, I am seeking an escape, a place to turn to, a temporary refuge from the world and the work.
Sometimes I read–either books or my vintage comic books, which, with their musty, magic smell and corny, dated story lines, have been my loyal companions since junior high. Other times, I’ll pop in a DVD (I am old school that way) of a favorite sitcom or a Ken Burns documentary or an episode of The Twilight Zone. But more and more these days, I am watching old movies.
I love old movies, and by old, I mean old. Black-and-white Cary Grant, James Stewart, Fay Wary, Katherine Hepburn old. I have a number of DVDs acquired through the years; for ages now, a lot of them have sat in piles, tucked away, gathering dust. Now I am watching them. They provide a comfort, I suppose, a lightening, before sleeping at night during such dark and uncertain times. They are my own personal island, a tropical beach of the soul where I can walk along the water’s edge, sand in my toes, getting lost for an hour or two.
There is much to choose from. Hitchcock classics like Rope, Rear Window, and To Catch a Thief. Sappy Christmas movies that I love–It’s a Wonderful Life, Miracle on 34th Street, Meet Me in St. Louis. Film noir classics with Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall, Veronica Lake, John Garfield, Lana Turner, Rita Hayworth, and Robert Mitchum. And the dramas like Gone with the Wind, Citizen Kane, The Lost Weekend, just to name a few. The classic romances–Casablanca, The Philadelphia Story, Rebecca, and so many more. A virtual treasure trove.
Admittedly, sometimes I’ll go for something more “modern” like Forrest Gump or Field of Dreams or Back to the Future. But, by and large, when I fish for a movie to go with the overly salted popcorn, it’ll be a vintage film from the 1940s or 1950s, and then I will allow myself, temporarily, to take a detour from reality with Clark Gable or Ingrid Bergman or Burt Lancaster. I know I need to come back to the real world soon enough, so while I’m gone, I make sure to enjoy the journey.
I hope each of you is finding a way to cope and push through this insecure and troubled time as well. Whatever your pleasure, whatever your method of dealing and persevering and finding some solace, somehow, please be careful, take care, and stay safe.
Thanks so much for reading!
Mike
Eye-Dancers 